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West Marin Citizen
October 18, 2007
Diana DeBardeleben of Lagunitas – delightful in every way
Obituary by Larken Bradley
Lagunitas resident Diana DeBardeleben, whose loving nature, community activism and chocolate truffles made her the heart and soul of San Geronimo Valley for nearly 20 years, died at home on September 6, from adrenal cortical carcinoma, a rare cancer. She was 61.
Whether mothering her brood of five children, tending the family’s sheep, goats and chickens, or volunteering in the open classroom at Lagunitas School, Ms. DeBardeleben gave her all, and joyfully so.
At a memorial celebration held Saturday at San Geronimo Valley Community Center, her son, Owen Smithyman, said in a eulogy, “because of her, I like everybody.”
Even when facing death, she remained optimistic. “Diana enjoyed her last day on earth as much as any day ever,” wrote her husband, John Smithyman. “Her cancer was merely an inconvenience, treated much like wet socks or a mosquito bite.”
Diana’s Delights
A chocolatier, Ms. DeBardeleben made handmade truffles called Diana’s Delights. Last June she bought Buttercup, a pint-sized candy and gift shop in San Anselmo’s Red Hill Shopping Center, offering homemade baked goods and organic ice cream. A cancer recurrence interrupted plans to sell truffles at Buttercup, though family members plan to carry out her dream.
Ms. DeBardeleben was born in San Francisco on November 29, 1945. At age 13 she moved with her parents to Guerneville. She attended Analy High School in Sebastopol and went on to UC Berkeley, dropping out early to marry the first of her four husbands. She later earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology at Cal State Hayward.
Though much married, she harbored no acrimony toward the three spouses who came before the love of her life, Mr. Smithyman, her husband of 25 years. The couple married in 1981 and moved from Oakland to Lagunitas seven years later.
She had successive careers as a massage therapist, a bookkeeper and ultimately as a baker and chocolate maker, a profession that began when she donated her first delectables to fundraising efforts.
Defender of animals
Competent all round, Ms. DeBardeleben fixed her own car, operated power tools and hauled 60-pounds sacks of grain. She once bayoneted a skunk that attacked her hens and beat to death with a hammer a raccoon that assaulted her Labrador-mix, Snowflake.
“She was a powerhouse of a person, but not a steamroller,” said longtime friend, Amy Valens of Forest Knolls.
This week Dave Cort, director of the San Geronimo Valley Cultural Center, recalled Ms. DeBardelben handling bookings for Valley Vision, an annual dinner/dance fundraiser.
For 15 years she provided her home phone number as a reservations line, taking hundreds of calls – at all hours – for the pleasure of engaging with others.
“Diana had the biggest heart of anybody I ever met in my life,” Cort said. “The bottom line is that she believed in community and community building.”
Take me to Paris
In her final year, Ms. DeBardeleben traveled to Paris twice and took up the bass guitar.
She considered herself to be the luckiest person in the world.
She is survived by her husband, John Smithyman of Lagunitas; son, Thomas Seitz of Fairfax; daughter, Katherine Ward-Seitz of Forest Knolls; sons, Owen Smithyman; Austin Smithyman; and Drew Smithyman; all of Lagunitas; and three grandchildren.
Family members suggest that any memorial contributions be made to Valley Toys and Joys, PO Box 496, Woodacre 94973.
Point Reyes Light - January 26, 2006
Artist and musician Eleanor Abelseth dies at 90
By Larken Bradley
Former Inverness resident Eleanor Mae Abelseth, an artist and musician who loved whooping it up by playing her Hammond organ at top volumes, died Friday, January 13, in Sebastopol, of cardiac failure. She was 90.
Mrs. Abelseth was also born on Friday the 13th — in August of 1915 — and unlike those superstitious about the date, she always considered Friday the 13th to be her special day. Commenting on the mystery of her mother entering and exiting the world on her lucky day, her daughter Irene Meinicke said, "it was her final performance."
A West Marin resident for 30 years, Mrs. Abelseth and her husband, Donald, moved to Inverness in 1945. Her husband was an architect and contractor who built many West Marin homes, and also served as Inverness firechief.
Mrs. Abelseth was active in the Inverness Garden Club, and taught sewing to 4H members.
Loved music, loved to dance
She loved to dance and at a local PTA talent show one year, to a recorded version of the bawdy classic, "The Stripper," performed a striptease. According to family members, her exuberance raised a few eyebrows, though her routine was relatively tame.
An enthusiastic swimmer, Mrs. Abelseth regularly swam from beach to beach in Tomales Bay with her daughter.
Mrs. Abelseth took many art classes at local junior colleges, and became an accomplished portrait artist, gem faceter and calligrapher. She was a member of the Art Workshop of Western Sonoma County.
Mrs. Abelseth was born Eleanor Mae Diehl in Los Angeles. When she was just six weeks of age her parents moved their young family to the Boston area, making the journey by train. Her father was among other things, a chemist, and invented a lotion called Magic Hand. His varied enterprises eventually brought the family to San Francisco where Eleanor met her future husband in high school.
Small woman, big voice
A gifted musician, for more than 20 years she sang alto in a choir. "She was a little person with a deep voice," said her daughter. In addition to the organ, she also played the trombone and the accordion.
She worked briefly as a dresser at the Fox Theater in San Francisco, helping performers change costumes between acts.
Mrs. Abelseth enjoyed spending time at her home in the Sierra. While vacationing in the mountains she became friends with adventurer, Nicol Smith, and edited the manuscript of one his books on the Burma Road.
Noted her daughter, "she was content and happy with how her life turned out."
Mrs. Abelseth was predeceased by her husband of 43 years, Donald Abelseth; brother, Marshall W. Diehl; sister, Alma Diehl; grandson, Travis Meinicke; and her nephew, Marshall Diehl.
She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Irene and Erich Meinicke of Sebastopol; son, Ronald B. Abelseth; granddaughter, Marlo Meinicke of Rohnert Park; and her nephew, Frank Diehl of Sonora, Tuolumne County.
Inurnment will be at Olivet Memorial Park in San Francisco.
Point
Reyes Light - August 11, 2005
Inverness
Park zoologist Seth Benson dies at 100
By Larken
Bradley
Longtime
Inverness Park resident Seth Benson, a retired UC Berkeley
professor of zoology, died at home Tuesday, August 2, of natural
causes. He was 100 years old.
A renowned
field biologist, Professor Benson was highly regarded for
his studies of rodents inhabiting the deserts of the Southwest
and Baja California. While serving as curator of the Museum
of Vertebrate Zoology for 37 years, Dr. Benson contributed
more than 13,000 specimens, along with field notes and 800
photographs, to its archives at UC Berkeley.
By nature
cantankerous, the educator was known to scare the daylights
out of mousy students with his crusty manner. But underneath
his curmudgeonly affect, noted former student and friend Russell
Ridge of Inverness, "Seth was really kind and generous."
Said longtime
caregiver Jill Gilbert, "he was a real character."
In West
Marin he led a class field trip to Kehoe Beach, guiding students
in the partial dissection of a beached whale.
Front-page
celebrity encounter
In 1994,
Dr. Benson made front-page news in The Light after
he accidentally plowed into the rental van of late actor Christopher
Reeve, parked in front of the Bovine Bakery. On location in
Point Reyes Station filming Village of the Damned,
the star of Superman told a reporter, "I was sitting
there eating a bearclaw," when the mishap occurred.
After his
retirement in 1969, Dr. Benson made West Marin his permanent
home. He grew several varieties of apples at his homestead,
keeping meticulous journals of tree productivity and hand-pressed
juice yields.
In his 90s
he became computer literate and maintained correspondence
online with friends and colleagues.
Born in
the town of Kern (Kern County), in 1905, young Seth was the
youngest of six children whose parents were of Norwegian descent.
As one of the original subjects of psychologist Lewis Terman's
study of gifted children, Dr. Benson continued receiving follow-up
questionnaires from the report well into his later years.
In 1928
he married Emma Dennis. Over the years his wife accompanied
him on many zoological specimen collection excursions, tooling
around California and Mexico with him in a Model-T Ford truck.
Noted colleagues at the Museum of Vertebrate Zoology, "Seth
was the only one who went with women on field trips."
As staunch
believers in zero population growth, the couple chose not
to have children. This week Light circulation manager,
Missy Patterson, recalled the day she and her then husband
stopped by the Bensons home. When the professors
wife learned the Pattersons had 11 children, an appalled Mrs.
Benson demanded, "get out, get out!"
At the time
of Emma Bensons death in 1997, the two had been married
69 years.
Began esteemed
career by cleaning rabbit skulls
A lifelong
UC Berkeley man, Dr. Benson earned both his bachelors
and doctoral degrees from the university. He devoted his career
to the Museum of Vertebrate Zoology, starting there as a cleaner
of rabbit skulls. In 1932 he was named Curator of Mammals,
a position he held until his retirement in 1969. As associate
professor he taught vertebrate natural history and mammalogy.
A number of his students have gone on to eminent careers in
zoology.
Reported
colleagues, "his most famous scientific publication is
on concealing coloration in desert mice."
In 1928
he joined the American Society of Mammalogists and served
as its secretary in the 1940s.
Dr. Benson
enjoyed fishing, and lent his expertise to the preservation
of Tomales Bay and Point Reyes National Seashore.
He is survived
by his grandnephews, Steve Dennis; and Mike Dennis; and his
caregiver, Jill Gilbert.
A 100th
birthday party was held for Dr. Benson last spring. No services
have been planned.
Friends
have suggested that memorial contributions be made to the
Museum of Vertebrate Zoology, University of California; the
Tomales Bay Association; or the Inverness Garden Club.
Point
Reyes Light - February 3, 2005
Inverness'
Dorothy Coster loved fast cars, dies at 89
By Larken
Bradley
Longtime
Inverness resident Dorothy Coster, a retired businesswoman
with a passion for fast Corvettes, died in her Inverness home
Dec. 20 of complications from gallbladder cancer. She was
89.
A West Marin
resident for more than 45 years, she and her husband George
Coster posted a sign on the gate of their Inverness home that
read, "Costers Last Stand."
Before retirement,
she and her husband ran businesses in Richmond including a
tire dealership and liquor store.
A quiet philanthropist,
through scholarship programs Mrs. Coster anonymously put five
Asian students through medical school, four in the Philippines,
and one in Singapore. "Im happy to report they
are all now practicing in the field of their studies,"
she wrote before her death.
Petite, dark-haired
and tanned, her trademark outfit was a pair of blue jeans,
a sweater and a pair of sandals.
Outgoing
and adventurous, "some would say she talked like a sailor
and drove a car like a man," said friend Barbara Keady
of Point Reyes Station. "These were compliments to her."
Corvettes
vs. CHP
Mrs. Costers
thirst for speed and fast cars had her behind the wheel of
a series of Corvettes, some red, others silver. "She
was not unknown to the highway patrol," admitted her
nephew, Jack Hansen. "One clocking was 110 mph."
While she
was slapped with many speeding tickets, attended traffic school
numerous times, and was dropped by one insurance company,
Mrs. Coster argued that she drove safely and only let it rip
on the open road. She always felt the CHP picked on her.
"Many
of her sayings were unique," added Barbara Keady. When
someone was on time or did a good job, she often said, "Boy,
he was Johnny at the rat hole!"
Born August
19, 1915, Dorothy Duarte was raised on a cattle ranch in Briones
Valley, Contra Costa County. She attended grade school in
a one-room schoolhouse, but was denied a high school education
by her father who didnt believe girls needed further
schooling. As a young woman she enrolled in vocational school
and became a surgical dental nurse.
Husband
only love
She met her
husband, George Coster, when he received dental treatment
at her employers office. "Her only love was her
husband," her nephew said.
Together
the couple operated two businesses in Richmond, Coster Tire
and later Alta Liquor. They built a cabin on Blue Lake, Humboldt
County, raised quarter horses, and traveled the US in a seven-foot-long
Little Caesar trailer, festooned with decals and stickers
of their travel destinations.
After her
husbands death in 1978, Mrs. Coster continued traveling
on her own in an Air Stream trailer in North America. Her
extensive overseas travels, which she continued into her late
80s, included trips to South America, Burma, and eight junkets
to Indonesia alone.
"Dorothy
informed her friends not to feel sorry for her as she had
a wonderful life," her nephew said.
A strong
woman who believed in fairness, Mrs. Coster stood up for what
she believed in and didnt back away from conflict if
she knew she was right, friends observed.
She was predeceased
by her husband George Coster; a brother, William Duarte; and
her sister, Irene Lantheir.
Mrs. Coster
is survived by her nephew Jack Hansen of Pismo Beach, San
Luis Obispo County.
At her request,
no services will be held.
The family
has suggested that any memorial contributions be made to Hospice
of Marin, 17 E. Sir Francis Drake Blvd., Larkspur 94939.
Point
Reyes Light - November 20, 2003
Famed Inverness artist
Gordon Onslow Ford dies
By Larken Bradley
Gordon Onslow Ford, an internationally
acclaimed artist and the last surviving member of the Parisian
Surrealist painters of the 1930s, died of a stroke Sunday,
Nov. 9, at his Inverness compound where he had lived and painted
for more than 45 years. He was 90.
In 1957, he and his wife, the poet
Jacqueline Johnson, acquired land on Inverness Ridge. Over
the years they donated more than 225 acres to the Nature Conservancy
for its permanent preservation.
Inspiration from Inverness
A deeply spiritual man, Mr. Onslow
Ford drew artistic inspiration from the natural landscape
surrounding his home. "He was searching for his relationship
to the Creator in very close connection with nature, the woods,
trees [and] birds of Bishop Pine Preserve," noted his
cousin, Franz-Josef von Braun.
A painter of metaphysical landscapes,
his images incorporate lights, live-lines and multi-horizons.
Shrouded in a veil of mystery to
many West Marin residents, "he enjoyed his privacy so
he could be left in peace to paint, but he was constantly
in dialogue with the art world, museum directors, curators,
writers, students, his staff and associates," said Fariba
Bogzaran, executive director of the Lucid Art Foundation,
which Mr. Onslow Ford co-founded.
"He painted every morning and
walked in the woods every afternoon," Bogzaran revealed.
Until shortly before his death,
added Point Reyes Station artist Christine DeCamp, "he
was painting every day."
Remembered for his humility, Mr.
Onslow Ford, "wouldnt want his own photo on his
catalogue," said Daniel Deslauriers, who recorded a video
biography of the artist.
"He was very English,"
observed DeCamp. "There was a real sweetness to that."
Mr. Onslow Ford was born in 1912
in Wendover, England, into a family of artists. His early
works were painted at the Royal Naval College at Dartmouth.
After serving as a naval officer he moved to Paris in 1937,
where he studied and joined the Surrealists led by Andre Breton.
He befriended other artists including Roberto Matta, with
whom he maintained a lifelong friendship.
Led surrealist movement
In 1941 he moved to New York, rejoining
the Surrealistic painters in exile there during World War
II. He became spokesman for the Surrealistic Art Movement,
conducting a series of lectures and exhibitions.
After marrying Ms. Johnson the two
joined several painters in Erongaricuaro, Mexico, where they
lived among the Tarascan Indians for six years.
The couple moved to San Francisco
in 1947. The next year Mr. Onslow Ford opened a retrospective
exhibition at the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art. He and
Greek painter Jean Varda bought the ferryboat Vallejo,
which they converted to an art studio docked in Sausalito,
creating a cultural center for the Bay Areas artistic
community.
In 1951 he organized the historic
Dynaton exhibit at the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art,
and studied with Zen Buddhist scholar Alan Watts and Zen Master
Hodo Tobase Roshi.
In a press release announcing his
death, it reads, "Buddhist teachings of Void and Emptiness
introduced Onslow Ford to the exploration of the depths of
the mind and deeper layers of consciousness."
After moving to Inverness Ridge
he developed an artistic philosophy he labeled, "line,
circle, dot," which led to the publication of two books,
Painting in the Instant, and Creation. In 1978
a major retrospective of his work was opened at the Oakland
Museum.
In the late 1980s he began a collaboration
with Fariba Bogzaran, an artist and lucid-dream researcher.
Their alliance inspired two further publications, Ecomorphology,
and Once Upon a Time. Along with friend Robert Antoine,
in 1998 the trio co-founded the Lucid Art Foundation, "to
support a direction in art that expresses the quest of the
inner worlds," organization members note.
A group of the association's artists
and administrators will continue his legacy at the Bishop
Pine Preserve.
A gracious artist
In February of this year The
Light met Mr. Onslow Ford at the opening reception of
his exhibit, "Paintings from the Last Five Years,"
held at the Braunstein/Quay Gallery in San Francisco. Neatly
dressed in a conservative suit, Mr. Onslow Ford graciously
chatted with visitors as they viewed his large-scale kinetic
paintings of images from the collective unconscious.
Public collections of his work can
be seen at the Whitney Museum of Modern Art, the Guggenheim
Museum in New York, the Tate Gallery in London, the San Francisco
Museum of Modern Art, and the Los Angeles County Museum.
A public art show opening of his
work will be held at 5 p.m. Saturday, December 6, at the Weinstein
Gallery, 383 Geary Street, San Francisco.
His wife, Jacqueline Johnson, predeceased
him in 1976.
He is survived by his sister, Elisabeth
Onslow Ford Rouslin; and a nephew, Maxwell Rouslin, both of
Asheville, North Carolina.
A memorial service will
be announced.
.Point
Reyes Light - December 5, 2002
NBC courtroom
artist Stewart of Bolinas dies
By Larken
Bradley
Renowned courtroom artist,
Bolinas resident Walt Stewart, whose vivid sketches of criminals,
crooks, and con artists brought trial drama to life during
a career that spanned nearly 40 years, died in his home Wednesday,
Nov. 26, of complications from pulmonary disease. He was 71.
Emmy Award
winner
A three-time Emmy Award
art winner, Mr. Stewart sketched notorious nogoodniks including
murderers Dan White, Charles Manson, and Theodore "the
Unabomber" Kaczynski. His first courtroom drawing assignment
was at the trial of Jack Ruby, who killed alleged John F.
Kennedy assassin Lee Harvey Oswald.
Fate played a strong
role in Stewarts life, but maybe no more so than in
Dallas on Nov. 22, 1963. Mr. Stewart walked to his bank on
Daly Plaza to deposit a paycheck from WFAA-TV, where he worked
as commercial graphic artist and set designer. As bullets
hit President Kennedys passing motorcade, Mr. Stewart
aimed the Polaroid camera he happened to have with him at
the open second floor window in the Texas Book Depository,
from which the shots rang out. As the nation reeled, his still
photos were the first used on national television broadcasts.
Some months later, WFAA-TV
sent Mr. Stewart on assignment at the Ruby trial, and his
career was born.
Hundreds
of friends
A resident of West Marin
for more than 25 years, Mr. Stewarts outgoing, disarmingly
friendly nature drew to him legions of friends. Three weeks
before his death, after doctors informed Mr. Stewart his days
were numbered, he honored the occasion by throwing a big party.
His final bash launched a series of visits to his Horseshoe
Hill home "from hundreds of friends," his sister
Susie Stewart told The Light on Monday. An additional
200 phone calls came in, she added.
Born in San Francisco
on July 14, 1931, Walter Preston Stewart, III, grew up in
Berkeley. His fathers business, Stewart Hill Commissaries,
provided meals for agricultural workers in the San Joaquin
Valley. His mother, Frances Stewart, was an activist and naturalist
in West Marin.
In 1956 after graduating
from the University of the Pacific in Stockton with a degree
in art, Mr. Stewart hosted a kiddie television show, playing
himself as Uncle Walt. He later went on to the Art Center
College in Los Angeles and earned a second bachelors
degree in illustration.
Bound for New York with
the hope of landing a job in an advertising agency, Mr. Stewart
stopped in Dallas to visit a couple of friends from UOP who
played football with the Cowboys. Mr. Stewart never made it
to New York but accepted a job with the Cowboys, and designed
the teams lone-star logo. He later moved on to WFAA-TV
as a talk show on-air illustrator.
Breaking ground as one
of the first courtroom illustrators in the country, Mr. Stewart
prepared for the Ruby trial by studying sketches from Nazi
Adolf Eichmanns trial in Israel. At the Ruby trial he
was taken under the wing of courtroom artist, Howard Brodie,
who became his mentor. Over time Mr. Stewart made his way
back to the Bay Area where he spent his career as an employee
of NBC, while freelancing for other networks and news agencies.
At nearly every famous
trial in the last four decades, including those of Sirhan-Sirhan,
Squeaky Fromme, and Oregon guru Bagwan Sri Rashneesh, Mr.
Stewart captured telling moments when attorneys or judges
showed emotion, and when witnesses reenacted a dramatic event
or recounted an incriminating detail.
"He drew Charles
Manson so often, Charles Manson would wave and smile at him,"
his sister told The Light on Monday. The trial that
touched him the most was that of Oklahoma City bomber Timothy
McVeigh, "because he became friends with all the victims
families," Stewart added.
His final assignment
last June was at the trial of Yosemite slayer Cary Stayner.
Though Mr. Stewart was ailing at the time, "he had a
really strong work ethic," said friend and personal assistant
Jenny Rodin. "He knew it was his swan song."
From age 18 when he contracted
polio, Mr. Stewart struggled with a series of health problems.
While polio left him with a distinct limp, "his attitude
and humor helped him through life," reported friend and
newscaster Ed Leslie of Stinson Beach. "He kept plunging
on."
Consummate
bachelor
While Mr. Stewart never
married, "he had a rich romantic life," laughed
his sister. "He was a bachelor to the hilt."
Added his assistant,
Rodin, "he never was the marrying type . . . he liked
his freedom."
Before moving to West
Marin, Mr. Stewart lived in a series of boats anchored in
Sausalito with a talking parrot named Dum Dum. Friends there
dubbed him "The Marquis de Sausalito." After earning
a boatload of money from his work on the John DeLorean trial,
he purchased a shiny cherry-red Cadillac sporting vanity plates
which read, "THNX JDL" [thanks John DeLorean].
A great storyteller who
enjoyed sharing anecdotes of his courtroom adventures with
friends and strangers, "Walt was not a modest fellow,"
remarked Rodin. "He really loved admiration."
With tongue in cheek,
he anointed himself "a living legend," she revealed.
Large donation
In the weeks before his
death Mr. Stewart donated the collection of his lifes
work, comprising tens of thousands of sketches, to the Bancroft
Library at UC Berkeley.
Mr. Stewart is survived
by his sisters, Susie Stewart of Bolinas; Fairfax Donovan
of Santa Rosa; nephew, Preston Donovan of Petaluma; niece
Deirdre Matthews of Conifer, Colorado; and his cousin, Morton
Lippmann of Stinson Beach.
A memorial service is
scheduled for Saturday, Jan. 11, 2003, to be held at the Stinson
Beach Community Center. Anyone interested in attending may
call 868-1444 for more information.
Point
Reyes Light - May 16, 2002
Former
Stinson resident Roberta Shockey dies
By Larken
Bradley
Former Stinson Beach
resident Roberta "Bobby" Shockey, co-founder of
the Stinson Beach Wildflower Show and proprietor of Cooking
with Love, a popular catering service, died May 5 at her sons
home in Gualala. Mrs. Shockey, who had been suffering from
breast cancer, died suddenly of a heart attack. She was 76.
An activist in the Stinson
Beach community for more than 40 years, Mrs. Shockey was known
for her humor, wit, and razor-sharp tongue, as much as for
her civic contributions, which included serving on the Bolinas-Stinson
School District Board.
"She always had
opinions... she spoke her mind whether it rubbed someone the
wrong way or not," said her daughter-in-law, Maybeth
Shockey of Gualala.
Dr. George Flynn, a close
neighbor for more than 25 years, joked, "She had a very
short cerebral cosel nerve. She could flay you before you
bled to death."
A genuine ball of fire
who brought life to even the dullest situations, Mrs. Shockey
was a popular member of the beach town.
"For the most part,
people really liked her," her daughter-in-law said.
Of her generation, observed
Dr. Flynn, "she was one of the in-crowd."
San Francisco
native
A San Francisco native,
Mrs. Shockey was born on Sept. 22, 1925, the only child of
Robert Hale Everal, a salesman, and Isolde Hitzfeldt Everal,
a nurse who trained at Stanford University.
After graduating from
Lowell High School, she went to work for the phone company,
and later met Ken Shockey, a commercial artist who put himself
through school as a cowboy, riding horses in the rodeo. He
was as shy as she was outgoing. The opposites attracted and
married in 1945. Four years later, they made Stinson Beach
their home.
Largely self-taught,
Mrs. Shockey developed a great knowledge of birds and botany.
She co-founded the annual Stinson Beach Wildflower Show, which
after 10 years became so popular that it was moved to the
Oakland Museum. After expanding to the larger venue, her husband
designed the shows poster.
Ambulance
chaser
Known as an interesting
character, Mrs. Shockey and one of the Wildflower Shows
co-founders, Barbara Menzies who died several years
ago shared an obsession for ambulance chasing. Whatever
time of day the women heard sirens echoing through town, they
grabbed their car keys and chased the emergency vehicles.
In the wee hours, the two could be seen speeding down Shoreline
Highway in their bathrobes, her daughter-in-law reported.
A culinary wizard, Mrs.
Shockey opened a catering service called Cooking with Love.
Her cuisine was popular on trail rides and at Audubon Canyon
Ranch receptions. "Her enchiladas were famous,"
said her daughter-in-law. An hors doeuvre she
named Hotsy Totsy a baguette and green onion concoction
was a favorite at Stinson Beach parties.
She also taught cooking
classes privately in Stinson Beach and at the California Culinary
Academy.
From cooking
to painting
In 1990 in pursuit
of a warmer climate Mr. and Mrs. Shockey retired to
Green Valley, Arizona, where they surrounded themselves with
Indian artifacts and western memorabilia. Mr. Shockey created
paintings of old ghost towns.
After his death in 1999,
Mrs. Shockey moved back to California. She lived in Windsor,
Sonoma County, at the time of her death.
Mrs. Shockey is survived
by her son and daughter-in-law, Kenneth and Maybeth Shockey
of Gualala, Mendocino County; son, Peter Shockey of Sacramento;
seven grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren.
A memorial celebration
to be held in Stinson Beach will be announced.
The family has suggested
that any memorial contributions be made to the Oakland Museum
Wildflower Show, 1000 Oak Street, Oakland, 95607.
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